Once again a
brief encounter on a personal site. I consider myself very easy going, with
some limits. I also find going through personals is more work than fun. I find
many set goals which are okay just realize your goals don’t match others. I know
being burned sucks that is why personals have become a beacon of hope or a last
chance for some kind of love. Before I go any further I know my looks maybe
average or even less. This is where I know the scammers think this one must be
desperate. Now for why this is being written, where to start? I find turn offs
quickly yes I do read the brief bios. If you have to put “I am intelligent” makes
me wonder what the hell has been done to this one. I also find that when all
the effort has to be the other sex, gives the impression of a royalty fantasy
status. Let’s face it we are human and we are far from perfect. The other lines
of tired of games and drama, really sometimes when you have played for so long
the mirror becomes less reflective and it has become a part of the personality.
It seems that others play the games.
Have we become where
we would only date ourselves? A scary thought only to say maybe this is
something. The media and other social herd mentality tell men need to date
tens. Women need to date a man ripped out of the best romance novel of erotic
that they have read. Then there is the ultimate line wants to have fun, I for
one love the utopian idea. Sorry though life happens and the fairy tales are
just what they are. Then we come to the stereo type no male or female are all
the same. The problem usually consists of the one who professes this. Sorry from
experience I can attest to this. Though I have the trouble of just getting a
coffee with the opposite sex, this sounds over demanding I know. I don’t do
much with the hook up sites so if that’s your fun that is great for you. I for
one will wait for the right one.
So if you find
someone I bow to you and think there may be hope yet. I also find if the opposite
sex says hi, first an attractive quality. I may write more on this subject as
time goes on. I only ask don’t be shy and comment or give a short story.
I do know women have
it rough I don’t mean to offend anyone. I just like to share what I look for,
many guys will not agree to this and some will most likely go denial. Yeah,
male egos are fragile and that’s it for now.
